Question of the Week
Female WOMEN ASK::

My husband and I had two children out of wedlock before we became believers. We had a traditional (customary) wedding without the court and church wedding. Now we are believers and members of a church, can we still have a church wedding?

Answer:

Yes. As believers, old things are passed away and all things are become new. Although the traditional (customary) wedding is respected by God, you can go ahead to get a church blessing.

Male MEN ASK:

I have been sent out of the bedroom by my wife because I snore. How do I regain my bedroom?

Answer:

It is often advised that when snoring gets to a level where it becomes offensive and prevents the other person from sleeping, medical advice should be sought. However, I know of someone who was operated upon and he stopped for about 3 months but by the 6th month, his snoring came back stronger. Even with the surgery! This suggests to me that a medical solution can sometimes be temporary.

Sometimes there are sleeping positions that help to reduce snoring and there are other tips that can help address the issue. Other times, snoring could result from excess weight. In such situations, exercise is recommended.

However, most times, a partner just has to live with it. After all, love bears all things. It is therefore no reason for a partner to send her spouse out of the bedroom as this can adversely affect the relationship thereby causing a bigger problem.

Interestingly, I believe you can pray about this if it becomes such an issue. Remember, there is nothing too hard or too small for God to handle!

 
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