RECENT QUESTIONS ::: My ex-husband is a fun loving person and it hurts me when the children visit him for the whole of their summer break, only to come back and have nothing else to say other than how much they have enjoyed his company. I know I should look forward to these visits with their dad as it affords me time for myself, yet I get really uptight whenever they go mainly because I am afraid they might one day decide to remain permanently with him. Can you help me? (new) Is there a way I can influence my daughter's attitude towards boys? She is 19 and I think she should have less of boys as friends now so she can focus on her studies. How do I handle this without giving the impression that I am over protective as a father? (new) Is it wise for couples to live apart due to their career demands and postings? (new) As the head of the home, how do you effectively set up and manage a family altar? What is the suggested frequency and time? (new) How do I regain my bedroom? Where does the family stand in order of priority? What can be done to save the marriage? What do you do with an over-bearing mother-in-law? How does a man prevent in-laws with bad marital experiences from influencing his wife? Every time my wife and I start to make love, she falls asleep during the process. We have been married for some years now and this remains the situation. Is there any medical or spiritual explanation for this? How do you resolve sexual conflict in marriage? I have been sent out of the bedroom by my wife because I snore. How do I regain my bedroom? How do you resolve sexual conflict in marriage? My husband and I had two children out of wedlock before we became believers. We had a traditional (customary) wedding without the court and church wedding. Now we are believers and members of a church, can we still have a church wedding? Is it right for a man to prevent his wife from being gainfully employed? I am always under a great burden to convince my husband as he usually does not believe me. What can I do?